Dames at Heart https://damesatheart.com Golden Girls meets TTRPG. Join our unlikely community of middle-age women playing Daggerheart. Sun, 16 Aug 2026 12:48:53 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1 https://damesatheart.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/cropped-dames_watermark-1-1-32x32.webp Dames at Heart https://damesatheart.com 32 32 So What Had Happened Was… https://damesatheart.com/?p=337&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=so-what-had-happened-was https://damesatheart.com/?p=337#respond Thu, 13 Aug 2026 02:00:48 +0000 https://damesatheart.com/?p=337

Hi all. It’s been almost a year since we kicked off Dagger Dames and most of that time we’ve been away from the table – and you deserve to know why. 

In the fall, Rishara, our Katari druid played by Karen, had to call out because of a cough. The cough persisted and we decided to restart in the new year.  

 

Before Thanksgiving, Karen sent me messages from the hospital ending with some of her test results. She asked me to tell the Dames that she had stage 4 lung cancer that has metastasized to her liver. She began chemotherapy treatment and after her first round, everything had shrunk and things were looking positive. 

Karen and I had purchased VIP tickets to Echoes of Exandria in Atlanta, the live Critical Role show here on May 26. The news in February, after her first round of treatment, was great and we continued to work on our cosplay (she was going as Lieve’tel Toluse and me as Ioun, the Knowing Mistress). She started another round of treatment as the spring started. 

The end of May is a busy time in Atlanta. School gets out for the year, Memorial Day, and MoMoCon. Add to that the Critical Role crew being at the Con and doing a live show, it was very hectic for Critters.  

The week before MomoCon, Karen and I talked about the results after her next round of chemo. It wasn’t good. Everything had grown. The cancer was in her brain, liver, lungs, and bones. The week of Momo, I talked her into foregoing the cosplay (I didn’t want her carrying the weight of a costume nor the stress and fuss of it) and getting a hotel room near the venue of the show. She said her doctors had suggested talking to her family about end-of-life planning. Because I am arranging my mother’s estate, I gave her some tips. She told me that it wasn’t for now, just to have in mind. There were other treatment options. It was going to be okay.  

 

Saturday she wrote to tell me that she was back in the hospital and would not be able to make the show.  

Monday before the show, her daughter texted to tell me that they were sending Karen home on hospice as there was nothing else to be done. 

Critical Role LIVE: Atlanta | Gas South District

I went to the show and felt like she was sitting on my shoulders. If you are a Critter, like Daggerheart, or both, you should watch the show

 

The next morning I had to go to Michigan to be with family. As the drive started out, Karen’s daughter wrote to tell me that her mom was not able to go home and “it” would happen in the hospital. 

It did. 

I got a text at 1:07 pm saying she had left us. 

Karen became one of my closest friends in the last 5 years as I was her DM over 3 campaigns.  Our daughters are engaged and I get to be here to see my daughter be a bride. I am doing everything I can to be an Auntie for Karen’s children.  

There is a lot of emotion that we’re processing.  

Her health was the first challenge. 

And now we are navigating our emotions.  

In the coming weeks, I am going to talk about Karen. I am also going to talk to Holly, the 3rd of our trio about the evolution of our party. 

I know no one wants to talk to smokers about not smoking. Quitting smoking is one of the hardest things to do. But, friends, saying goodbye to friends hurts.  

Having to help a friend’s child as she gets married hurts. 

Sucks. 

Nat 1. 

We’re going to lick our wounds for another couple weeks. And then we’re going to get back to the table.  

When Karen told us she was sick, she said, “I think you’re gonna have to kill Rishara”.  

And we refused. 

I continue to refuse.  

Stay tuned to find the ways Rishara impacts our story. 

And, if you smoke, please try stopping. If you love a smoker, ask them to quit and keep asking. A site that may be being overlooked by our current administration is https://smokefree.gov/ Use it while you can. 

Let’s keep rolling. 

And let’s never stop forgetting.  

Love you all. 

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Player Down https://damesatheart.com/?p=328&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=player-down Sat, 11 Oct 2025 15:34:11 +0000 https://damesatheart.com/?p=328

DM Tip for the Table

ICYMI, the Dames were missing this week. Dame Mistress Renee quickly talks about what to do when your table is going to be down a person, gone entirely, and how to be a courteous player when you know you’ll be out.

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Session 4 — Build up and let down https://damesatheart.com/?p=262&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=session-4-build-up-and-let-down Tue, 30 Sep 2025 23:53:30 +0000 https://damesatheart.com/?p=262

Session Four -- Build up and let down

We opened with Rhapsody and Nyxx disappointed in missing the Fertility Festival in order to attend the ball in honor of the princess.
 
Members of the resistance were trying to determine what actions needed to be taken.
 
It was decided that we must attend the ball in order to find out WTF is going on, and we tried on our purchases.  It was decided that Rishara needs an overskirt, jewelry, and shoes.  She will use the dagger of elements as an accessory.  
 
Rhapsody’s jewelry was judged good, but she must have an appropriate gown.  
 
Nyxx came out wearing cargo shorts and a wife beater, with an heirloom pendant and her Mirrorveil earrings.  She will need everything except jewelry.
 
After checking with members of the resistance it is decided that Rishara along with an orc called Aldbjorn and an elf called Lyredelle will-  mmm- acquire these items by paying a late night visit to the market inside the walls.  Jacqueline wa not pleased that Lyredelle will go, but allows it.  
 
Rhapsody and Nyxx may go out for the evening.  Perhaps gambling?
 
We were given additional information:
 
A small faun entered and said that Dale found  a foot while he was gardening.  No one is certain if it is connected to anything but it could possibly be Armie’s foot.
 
Jacqueline gave Rishara a red quartz.  Aldbjorn, Rishara, and Lyredelle went through the tunnels and back inside the walls.  We came upon a door, and Aldbjorn uses a red quarts along the frame, and we entered into the butler’s pantry of the manor.  The house was being transformed by a crew of resistance into a lovely, well decorated manor house.  
 
As we exited the butler’s pantry we felt a weight and shift of energy.  The heist party, Josef, and another orc were there.
 
We went over the list of necessary items:
Overskirt
accessories for Rishara
gown for Rhapsody
gown for Nyxx
 
Josef suggested we hit Bedelias, Hermes, and the apothecary, and Aldbjorn and Rishara planned to visit a weapons purveyor the next day to have adjustments made to the dagger of the elements.
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Nyxx and Rhapsody were resting and eating when Rishara returned.  Rhapsody said she would like to blend in, and Nyxx would like to look special, but did not want anything pink.  Rhapsody and Nyxx would decide on hairstyles etc while Rishara was gone.
 
We got dinner and went to get a seat, and there was a human woman at the table playing dice.  Her name is Andorra, and she is a gambler.  She has been with the resistance since the beginning.  She is a pirate by profession.  Nyxx knows her well, and they gamble – Nyxx won 2 bags of gold.
 
Aldbjorn came to get me, and we went towards the manor.   We headed into the pantry entrance from the tunnel, but we couldn’t get through the force field and we could hear people speaking “Of course, we’d love to show you around”…
 
Andorra invited Nyxx and Rhapsody out for the evening to pregame for the Fertility Festival. and they agreed since they would be missing the event.
 
Rhapsody asked if Andorra could be trusted, and Nyxx said no, but she’s a lot of fun.
 
They headed between the walls and back through the bar we had used earlier in the day.  After about a 20 minute walk, the three arrived at a bonfire on the beach, surrounded by palm trees.  There were bongos being played.  The bonfire contained recreational additives, and bottles were being passed around.
 
Andorra cautioned that Rhapsody and Nyxx should avoid the area behind the bushes.  They of course immediately went towards them.  They were stopped by a large inferis ad sent back to the bonfire.
 
The pair decided to get back there anyway.  Rhapsody successfully dragged Nyxx through a gap in the shrubbery and they fell into a 2 half giants and an orc on a picnic blanket, surrounded by piles of clothing.  They saw several other blankets hosting their own individual fertility festivals.  The orc requested lube ad the two went to try to get some.
 
They did not find lube, but they attempted to find some cups and perhaps cooking oil – they did discover some dirty cups, but they belong to a dracona and he won’t let them have them.  Nyxx asked a couple for some discarded paper nearby and origami-ed up a bowl, but they could not find any lubricant-adjacent material.  Rhapsody and Nyxx returned to the orc, and Rhapsody offered advice on foreplay. Then the pair wandered off to to make new friends and play fun games.  
 
Nyxx found the large inferis attractive, and saw him again – oops, he had misplaced his shirt.  He had marshmallow stuck to his fingers.  The two went to the water to “clean him up”.  He was fascinated by her earrings, and she fell on his dick.  She charmed him, but he finished too quickly.  2/5 stars.
 
Rhapsody was trying to attract, and a woman was interested, but she seemed tired.  Nyxx sent  her to the 2-star inferis instead.  The two were rather bored, so they went back to HQ, and found that people were very upset because there were people in the manor house.  
 
End of Session
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GM Tips #2 https://damesatheart.com/?p=164&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=gm-tips-2 Mon, 29 Sep 2025 14:46:53 +0000 https://damesatheart.com/?p=164

Time to talk about organization, the people, places, and things type, not the corporate overlord crap.

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GM Tips #1 https://damesatheart.com/?p=157&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=gm-tips-1 Mon, 29 Sep 2025 14:40:27 +0000 https://damesatheart.com/?p=157 This is an overview of the table for all G/DMs.

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Campaign 3 Session Notes https://damesatheart.com/?p=96&utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=campaign-3-session-notes Sun, 28 Sep 2025 23:40:26 +0000 https://damesatheart.com/?p=96

 

 

Session 3 -- Welcome to the Resistance

We rose, enjoyed a breakfast of French toast, and headed out to the main town – between the walls- to visit Bella Croix and collect gossip.

The market was lively and there was talk about the fertility festival. Some vendors were even offering discounts due to the event. Rhapsody found a short dress that glitters like starlight, and negotiated with Ethmund, the proprietress. Nyxx found a skirt, but was disappointed in the lack of horn adornments. Rishara quietly purchased a green Grecian style gown and tucked it away.

Nyxx and Rhapsody were enticed by a jewelry seller’s selection (Olga). She showed the trio a selection of jewelry appropriate to their needs. Nyxx tried on earrings and a galapa passing by commented on them- this made Rishara uncomfortable and she discovered that the magic in the pieces is not malevolent, but was unsure the pieces were a good idea. Rhapsody also tried on jewelry, and she and Rishara shared the cost of the purchases. Nyxx received Mirrorveil Earrings:

Dangling crystal droplets that reflect not just light, but the emotions of those who gaze upon her.

• Effect: Advantage on Insight checks to read others’ feelings.

• Once per day: Cast Disguise Self—the illusion subtly shaped by her current emotional state.

• Resonance: The earrings refract her mood into color—rose-gold for affection, silver-blue for melancholy, emerald for mischief.

Rhapsody bought the Starlace Choker of Velvet Verse

A slender band of twilight starlace threaded with notes of emotion-song.

• Effect: Once per long rest, cast Suggestion or gain advantage on Deception checks when performing.

Resonance: Glows with hues of longing and pride, harmonizing with her voice to add haunting resonance to spoken or sung words.

We noticed a clank acting as a huckster for both lunch and great deals a few rows over.

(Missed context here)

A group of people were watching something (unknown) but not participating.

Nyxx directed Rishara’s attention to a large, dark green Dragonborn in the crowd, and explains the mark of a feather with a curve around it to Rishara – it represents the Ivory Quill, which is the group that has taken over everything that has taken over the town. We observed as a half elf walked up and spoke to him, and then departed.

We decided to leave, and as we did so we noticed a fungril tipping his cp towards us. Rhapsody decided he looed s though he was up to no good.

Rishara began to behave in a very uncharacteristic manner – goggling, fluttering, and generally making her friends very uncomfortable. The deception worked and we were able to escape towards the inner ring.

Nyxx took us to a tavern called The Mysterious Ghoul, and gave us instructions to access a shortcut to the tunnels. The bartender was familiar to Nyxx, and one by one we made our way to the loo, where there was a a passage into the tunnels. The fungril network was very active, which made Rishara mention the security of the fungril network – Nyxx is certain it is secure but Rishara is not convinced.

Rhapsody and Nyxx are relieved that Rishara is not possessed or cursed or otherwise compromised.

We headed towards the barracks, and our lunch. We gave report, and Russyla confirmed the fungril network’s security, but says the the fungril network belonging to the Ivory Quill.is also secure, leaving the resistance with no insight into what they might be doing in real time..

As we were dining, a sobbing elf arrived, saying “I can’t go back there, not right now”. She was introduced as Errasue, and she had been working in the manor as surveillance.

Nyxx asked questions and Errasue said that the High Chancellor’s righthand man, Damnon, had been watching her wash dishes, and asked if she needed a hand. He then pulled out a forearm and hand which had been severed at the elbow, and she recognized it as having belonged to Armie, who was a member of the resistance and had been very active. Damnon then said “We are watching” and asked questions about where Errasue lived.

Nyxx was very alarmed by this.

Clenwe came in and said no one is to go up the tunnel to the manor. Hildegard elaborated that anyone who is part of the inside crew will be staying in the barracks and not in the manor and will enter the manor through the street entrance. No one is leaving the resistance. This was underscored by a panicked resistance member threatening to leave and being corralled into one of the recessed and immediately consumed by the mycelium present there.

We were informed that Josef was aware we had eyes on us while we were in the markets.

Nyxx says that we needed more information about what happened, how Armie was taken, and what information he could have given while he was being tortured.

She looked at Rishara and Rhapsody and said “We are going to be a team for a while. Welcome to the resistance.”

Short rest:

Preparation: More information on the resistance and what is happening there, and a discussion of operational security with Rhapsody.

end session.

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